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A Perfect Storm

A Perfect Storm

By: Hannah Meeks

        Pregnancy, especially an unplanned one, can be a stressful time for women with eating disorders due to amplified feelings of body dissatisfaction and anxiety about gaining weight. This, coupled with a lack of support and screening from clinicians who may not understand the intersection of eating disorders and pregnancy, creates a perfect storm for women with eating disorders.
        While these unpleasant feelings normally dissipate to that of women without eating disorders after 18 weeks’ gestation, they can be even more overwhelming for women whose pregnancy is unplanned. Easter, Treasure and Micali (2011), notes that rates of unplanned pregnancy for women with eating disorders are higher than that for women without eating disorders, with women who have anorexia being twice as likely and women with bulimia being 30 times as likely to experience an unplanned pregnancy.
        Many women with eating disorders experience amenorrhea and oligomenorrhea and can incorrectly assume that also means they are infertile. Amenorrhea is characterized by the absence of a menstrual period for at least three months and is often seen in women with anorexia nervosa(Amenorrhea, 2019). Oligomenorrhea is characterized by infrequent menstrual periods and can be seen in women with both anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa. The belief that this reduces fertility is incorrect and can be one potential explanation for why rates of unplanned pregnancy are so high in these groups.
        Another possible explanation for these high rates of unplanned pregnancy among women with eating disorders could be an increased participation in risk-taking behaviors. Women with eating disorders may be more likely to engage in risky sexual behaviors such as a lack of using contraceptives such as condoms (Tabler & Geist, 2016). This coupled with an assumption of infertility can lead to greater risk for unplanned pregnancy.
        Eating disorders during pregnancy already pose health risks to both the mother and baby, and many women will often not disclose their ED status with healthcare providers. Therefore, it is necessary to become more aware not only of the signs of eating disorders in pregnant women but also how best to approach things like weight and weighing processes during visits in order to better support patients who may have an eating disorder. This is one of the reasons for establishing Healing Bodies Healthy Babies, to help provide resources to the women affected, clinicians, and even family members of women with eating disorders.


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A Toxic Relationship: Eating Disorders and Violence

A Toxic Relationship: Eating Disorders and Violence

By Hattie Rowe

West Virginia University

*Trigger Warning. Discussions of Intimate Partner Violence, Sexual Assault, and Eating Disorders*

You may have heard of the nature vs. nurture debate. Some people say that our genetics and biology are what make us who we are. Others say that our environment shapes us to create the person we are. Researchers have applied this theory to the development of eating disorders.

The roots and causes of eating disorders are a widely debated and researched subject. While there is evidence that a person’s genes can predispose them to an eating disorder, there is also evidence that shows how disordered eating problems could occur as a response to sexual abuse (Chen, et al., 2010).   

What is sexual violence? And what does it have to do with eating disorders?

Sexual violence means that “someone forces or manipulates someone else into unwanted sexual activity without their consent,” as defined by The Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN) (rainn.org).

Studies have shown a relationship of eating disorders forming as a result of sexual violence. Sexual violence can happen to anyone, but most frequently occurs to women between the ages of 18 to 34 (rainn.org). This is a similar age bracket to the average population of people with eating disorders, which typically affects women in their early teens into young adulthood (National Institute of Mental Health, 2016).

What is Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)?

Intimate partner violence (IPV), sometimes known as domestic violence, is a common

threat to men and women. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in the United States defines Intimate Partner Violence as: “abuse or aggression that occurs in a close relationship.” An intimate partner refers to both current and former spouses and dating partners (CDC, 2019). IPV can vary in how often it happens and how severe it is. “It can range from one episode of violence that could have lasting impact to chronic and severe episodes over multiple years.” (CDC, 2019)

Crimes committed by intimate partners often go unreported. As for the information that has been contributed to our base of knowledge over the years, the statistics offer alarming insights. Over half of reported female rape victims said that an intimate partner was responsible (CDC, 2011). Nine percent of homicides are committed by intimate partners (NCRJS, 2018). The psychological and behavioral consequences of these experiences are numerous. One of these consequences is that victims of IPV have reported experiencing disordered eating patterns (Wong et al., 2016).

Eating Disorder Effects

Use of food is a common coping mechanism used by victims of sexual violence. Strictly managing food intake is a way that a victim can feel in control over their body. Or possibly bingeing on large amounts of food falsely eases psychological burdens for a brief moment. Obsessions with food and body become a problem that impedes on the everyday life of a victim. 

Victims of sexual violence often undergo a process of healing physically and mentally. Due to the physical toll that eating disorders take on the body, eating disorders may cause a disruption in the healing process. 

Physical consequences of eating disorders include, but are not limited to:

  • Tooth decay
  • Sore throat
  • Sleep problems
  • Lowered sex hormones
  • Dropped body temperature
  • Constipation
  • Stomach rupture
  • Esophagus rupture
  • Bone loss
  • Decrease in white blood cell count 

The mental effects of sexual violence and IPV can include:

  • Eating disorders
  • Trauma
  • Depression
  • Dissociation 
  • Sleep disorders 
  • And more 

Getting professional care for the psychological effects of abuse is just as important as

healing from physical abuse. This can help prevent the onset of eating disorders and other mental health problems that occur as a result of sexual abuse. Seeking helpful services can include receiving trauma informed care/practice and becoming aware of resources for eating disorders, IPV, and sexual violence available in your area.

Pregnancy and Abuse

A 2015 study found that women who have eating disorders are at an increased risk for IPV during pregnancy (Kothari, 2015). Further research is needed on this subject, but it is important to note that rates of perinatal IPV range from 3.7% to 9% and are associated with mental and physical problems for both the parent and child (Hahn, Gilmore, Aguayo, and Rheingold, 2019). Sometimes pregnancy may occur from reproductive coercion. For instance, if one partner wants to have a child and the other does not. Pregnancy can also occur as a result of sexual assault.

Whether it was an isolated event, or if your partner is currently or has a history of being abusive, it is important to have a plan moving forward. Making a plan for maintaining good physical and mental health during pregnancy is crucial. The changes happening to the body and healing after sexual violence are a lot to handle at once. Preparing helps keep you focused on your goals throughout and after your pregnancy and also can help keep you and your baby safe. 

Visit https://www.thehotline.org/is-this-abuse/pregnancy-abuse/ for detailed information on safety plans during pregnancy.

Resources for help: 

  • National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1 (800) 656-HOPE (4673)
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1 (800) 799-7233
  • National Eating Disorder Helpline: 1 (800) 931-2237


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summary report. Retrieved from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 

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Christine K Hahn, Amanda K. Gilmore, Rosaura Orengo Aguayo, Alyssa A. Rheingold. (2018). 

Perinatal Intimate Partner Violence. Obstetrics and Gynecology Clinics of North America,

45(3): 535–547. doi: 10.1016/j.ogc.2018.04.008






Conversations with People and Their Eating Disorder

Conversations with People and Their Eating Disorder

By Hattie Rowe
West Virginia University

Talking with a person who has an eating disorder might look different than other conversations. For instance, using words that directly reference appearance can be triggering for those with eating disorders. It has been shown that women with eating disorders spend longer time focusing on words that deal with appearance in comparison to women who do not meet the criteria for an eating disorder (Myers, Ridolfi, & Crowther, 2015). While in everyday conversation you may not notice certain phrases as triggering, people with eating disorders are more sensitive to the type of language directed at them in conversation.

A person with disordered eating may experience an “eating disorder voice” taking over the true identity of the person. It’s helpful to identify these two, conflicting selves. When engaging in conversation, addressing both “selves” or “voices” can help you discern who it is you are really speaking to.

When talking with a loved one who seems hostile, don’t let the “eating disorder voice” control the conversation. Try to remember that the person to whom you are speaking with is struggling with an internal battle that may cause them to be defensive. The goal for quality conversation with a person who has an eating disorder is to speak to their true self. Use empathy, patience, and love to speak to the voice that wants to recover. Although you may be feeling overwhelmed, the eating disorder voice can thrive off of this fear and turn it into your loved one feeling persecuted. It is best to have a conversation after you have prepared yourself and are in a good place emotionally.

Choosing certain words or statements over others might seem miniscule, but it can actually make a big difference in patient recovery. According to the American Psychiatric Association (APA),

Here are some general tips on how to have conversations about food, body, and concerns with a patient or loved one who has an eating disorder.


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Myers, T. A., Ridolfi, D. R., & Crowther, J. H. (2015). Reaction times to appearance-related or non-appearance-related word choice among women with and without eating psychopathology. Cognitive Therapy and Research, 39(2), 204–214. https://doi-org.www.libproxy.wvu.edu/10.1007/s10608-014-9653-5

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